I believe Americans refuse to incorporate any thoughts of death
into their lives because it is too real. America is known for many things—one
of those things being that America is able to spin the truth around to make
things seem like they are not as bad as they seem. Death is something that you
cannot run away from or spin around to be something different; it is what it is
and it is inevitable. There is also no really nice way of expressing that
someone is dead. Yes, often we use clichés, such as “they’re in a better place
now”, and although I do believe in an afterlife, it is impossible to say for a
fact whether there is life after death or not. So the reality of death is that
someone dies and they are gone. Another thing America is known for is its
ability to bully, and death isn’t something that can be bullied. Death is the
ultimate bully.
In the film Beetlejuice,
the Maitlands couple dies suddenly in a car crash after trying to avoid hitting
a dog. Although dead, they are still able to interact with human beings, and
are able to carry on with their day the way they please. Besides some extra
supernatural powers, the Maitland’s life doesn’t change much. In fact, the end
scene of the movie shows Mr. Maitlands doing the exact same thing he was doing
at the beginning of the movie when he was alive, which is working on his model
town. This is an act of death denial within the movie; there is no great change
from life to death, just some powers. It’s actually almost ironic how things
end up, because in the beginning of the movie, when the Maitlands were alive,
they wanted to spend their vacation at home, and now they get to do just that
for an eternity. It was also suggested that they were unable to have a baby,
and in the end they have Lydia, who becomes like a daughter to them (this is
assumed because they treat her like a daughter, studying with her all week for
a test, and rewarding her or punishing her for doing well.)
I like how you talk about Americans trying to make death sound easier and good by using cliche's even though we ultimately do not know where the person is going. Your bully example is great too. I never thought of America as a bully until now. Another reason we don't accept death is because as Americans we are kind of spoiled and get what we want and make the bad things go away. One bad thing we can't make go away is death so we deny it. Just a thought. Anyways I really like your post
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